But other than the kool-ness of having a digital readout, IF you have a receiver with accuracy, then just zero beating the QSO and spotting the VFO is more than sufficient, or zero beating the freq on the receiver and using the spot switch to tune the VFO. That's what I do.
Also, I don't
mute the receiver at all, I monitor my transmission with the receiver. As long as the speaker is far enough away or not too loud there is no feedback (changing the polarity of the speaker sometimes or position will help, if needed). The 'Dow Key' relay provides enough isolation so as to not overload the receiver input. Even if you do mute, the receiver is
still connected via the T/R switch, it's just told not to talk if you use the mute...
Perhaps running above 200watts out one might incorporate a transmit side attenuator by using the aux contacts that are on many T/R relays of the DowKey type. Or an external "mute" circuit actuated relay could drop in some attenuation...
But the idea of a diode or other means of monitoring urself is a good idea, I think. Some folks do not like to hear
themselves though.
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