i have a 100w amp, so i just didnt want anyone to sugegest a tube or combination of tubes that put the plate input over 200w, which is the power level i'm looking at, between 120 and 180 watts. thats why i think i'll go with the single 813.
You can run a 4-1000A at only 200 watts input, IF you want. It is fine (within reason) to use a tube with more capability-just not one with less. For example, the 813 you are considering is rated up to 200 watts input for grid modulated service and twice as much for traditional class C with high level modulation. So in traditional terms it is a "400 watt tube".
If you have (or someone offers you a good deal) tubes that are capable of more input you are better off with more emission capacity (extended service at your required power level) and more plate dissipation (bad things do happen and that reserve capacity is a positive).