Rich,
Don't overlook this 813 rig:
http://www.amwindow.org/tech/htm/813/813.htmI considered WB4GWA's xmitter but found K1JJ's 813 Maul the way to go, less complex.
I built it and it works good. I had some trouble but the designer (Tom/K1JJ) and other experts who live on this forum were at the ready when it came to troubleshooting.
About 95% of the rig is built according to plan. I added a few liberties of my own. For example, rather than using an outboard audio amp I designed my own solid state audio amp and incorporated it into the modulator deck. My screen and plate supply isn't according plan either because of hardware but some compensation and modification got both supplies working and stable.
The input tuning network works good as well. I had some trouble with it at first but it turned out to be a defective tuning cap.
As far as exciting it, this rig is flexible. I'm driving it with an FT-102 which allows me to use the receive section of the FT-102 so the whole setup is essentially a transceiver but I can quickly change it to any other 10 to 30 watt transmitter and use it as an exciter. If it were me, I'd scrap the idea of driving it with a homebrewed exciter and just drive it with something already built. You can certainly feed that exciter with a DDS device for frequency stability.
Don't feel bad about it taking 5 years to build it. It took me over 7 years to complete my Maul. There were alot of distractions involved that slowed construction. But I had most of the critical components already on hand which were easy to come by. I just needed the time to sit down and build.
Just so you know this is my first big homebrewed rig. From a construction and mechanical stand point, I'm OK with building stuff but this project was a different avenue for me. I was taking a design, building not 100% to plan and working out bugs. But even if at 100% to plan there maybe some bugs to work out. The point is, the guys here were so helpful in getting it going.
Go for it!!